Parenting, As Important As Any Profession
Before I taught parenting classes, people used to ask me at parties “what do you do” and I would reply “I’m a stay at home mom.” at which point they would turn to find someone else who would surely be more interesting to talk to than I. So instead, I began to say “I’m a professional mother.” Boy did that get their attention. “What do you mean?” they’d ask. “I am responsible for the emotional, spiritual, physical and mental well being and development of a human being,” I’d reply. Then there ensued a very interesting conversation. Many people trained to do a job need a license to certify their competence. Truck driver, sanitation worker, physical therapist, message therapist but no one requires training or a license to be a mother or father. Instead, most of us raise our children by accident and instinct with most of us either following in our parents footsteps or going against them. We rarely look at raising our children the way a professional might look at their jobs, even though helping our children grow is often more challenging than most professions and far more rewarding.
What Would It Be Like To Parent As If It’s Our Profession?
Even though there is no pay and rarely do we get outside acknowledgement for what we do, the rewards are amazing. We have the opportunity of helping our children to create lives that are far more joyful than the ones most people live. But before we can do that we must take a good look at the most important factor in determing your child's future success or failure. All of this is explained in the article titled
What Is My Job As A Parent?
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